Marie Sandra Straub gently slipped away May 10, 2019. She departed this life just as she preferred to live it – beside her dedicated husband, surrounded by her loving children, amid her dearest lifelong friends.
Though born August 11, 1942, Marie did not start counting the years until her senior year of high school in 1961, when she met the man with whom she was destined to share the rest of her life. She and Joseph B. Straub Sr. were engaged that very summer after graduation, and she married him, the love of her life, the following May. Marie soon became a military wife and mother, making possible Joseph’s successful 24-year career in the Navy. Side-by-side, Marie and Joseph embarked on their journey together. Marie managed a growing family through multiple moves, as she and Joseph wove the tapestry of their family legacy together, adding threads from myriad destinations in which they would reside spanning the globe. Ultimately settling in New York, Virginia, then Florida, they continued their life together in a manner reminiscent of characters only found in old love stories from eras long forgotten. Even after 57 years of marriage, there was no place Marie would rather be than by Joseph’s side.
Secure in her relationship with the man she adored, Marie quietly set about constructing a legacy that will be a remembrance of her presence on this Earth long after her passing. Never having known her own mother, Marie possessed a unique motherly love that existed free from the bonds of shared surnames or similar genetic lineage. Marie mothered any child lucky enough to cross her path who was willing to accept her love. Marie fostered many children and could always be persuaded to add just one more. Her empire consisted of not only the four children she carried herself, but also the many youngsters she and Joe fostered and/or adopted over the years. Marie and Joe were blessed with a house full of children, and in time this would grow to include visiting grandchildren, followed by great-grandchildren. She never turned away a soul and was never happier than when all of the beds in her home were full. A house bursting with life and love is what felt like home to Marie.
Her beloved children and cherished family, however, were not the only ones that peopled Marie’s empire. Making friends came easily to Marie and this talent could cross the chasm of decades separating her from those much younger than she. New neighbors easily became lasting friends, especially when they had children to be loved and enjoyed.
The art of friendship was a language that Marie spoke fluently. Especially adept at nurting strong and lasting relationships, Marie had special lifelong friendships forged with a few amazing ladies, friendships of the best and closest kind. These friendships kept these ladies together despite relocations that ended up spanning the entirety of the East Coast. Once one of these lifelong friends moved from New York to Virginia, the others soon followed. The distance from Virginia to Florida could not keep them apart. Marie and her closest friends ended up together again, calling the beautiful town of Fernandina Beach home. She shared her entire life with these women and loved them as the family they became. With more than daily phone calls, frequent dinner parties, and recurrent celebrations, their lives were fundamentally intertwined from her earliest years until she departed this life.
Marie has gone to patiently wait for her loving family and treasured friends in the arms of those who preceded her in death, her eldest son, Joseph B. Straub Jr., and best friend-in-law, Thomas J. Grady.
She is survived by her immensely loved, devoted, and doting husband, Joesph B. Straub Sr. of Fernandina Beach, Fla.; their children, Mary E. Meyer of Spotsylvania, Va., Terry L. Smith of Bel Air, Md., Diane R. Straub (Joseph B. Straub Jr) of Fredericksburg, Va., Donald R. Straub (Cindy) of Caroline, Va., Stephen M. Straub (Jodi) of Maidens, Va., Christopher A. Straub (Anne Carey) of Bumpass, Va., and John C. Straub of Fernandina Beach, Fla.; their many, many grandchildren and their great-grandchildren. Marie also leaves behind her brothers-in-law, William J. Straub and his wonderful wife, Louise, of Fernandina Beach, and Al E. Straub and his wife, Mary Jane, of Dobbs Ferry, N.Y.
Additionally, Marie will greatly miss her former neighbors with whom she and Joe became good friends, T. J. and Kelley Rew along with their two children whom Marie greatly adored. For a time, she leaves behind those who comprised her very special group of lifelong friends, Linda Shook and her husband, Bob, of Fernandina Beach, and especially Vicki Grady, also of Fernandina Beach.
Marie made her wishes known for what was to become of her earthly remains. As such, a Memorial Service will be held at 5 p.m. June 15, 2019 to celebrate her life at the Amelia Island Golf Club in Fernandina Beach. Eventually, Marie’s remains will be entombed with her husband when he is returned home to her once more, leaving both her earthly and heavenly forms exactly where they are supposed to be, right beside her true love, her eternal partner, forever and ever. MTYLTT.
Oxley-Heard Funeral Directors